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WHITE PLAINS | 721 W. Boston Post Road | Mamaroneck, NY 10543
MANHATTAN | 185 Madison Avenue, 17TH Floor Room 1703 | New York, NY 10016


Social Distancing Required.
Linda is offering Virtual & Online Healing sessions from the remote safety of your home. 

Emma–Choosing to Change

Generalized Anxiety Disorder

After making her first appointment with Linda Darin, Emma strode into
my office, well-groomed, poised, the picture of success. She and her husband had
moved from North Dakota two years earlier, and she was living her dream on Wall
Street as a financial broker.

But Emma had trouble meeting my gaze that first session, and she smoothed her skirt
obsessively, as if her well-being depended on erasing invisible flaws. She spoke of her
crushing anxiety, manifested as dizziness, shaking, and bouts of nausea. For five
months, she had been seeing a traditional therapist and taking medication, but she had found no relief. She feared she was going crazy.

My first goal with Emma was to establish rapport and guide her toward hope, and she
talked easily about her history and symptoms. Over a few sessions, the focus shifted
from her anxiety to her patterns of perfectionism. She was a leader, but she had to feel
in total control. She was accomplished, but she never felt she had done enough. She
took on responsibility, but at levels that exceeded her well-being. She told me that her
husband expressed both love and frustration. He felt Emma needed his constant
validation, and yet she was competitive and judgmental.

In an early assignment, I encouraged Emma to write down her feelings on a daily basis Gradually she became aware of the fear and shame that lay underlay her anxiety. In
counseling, she saw that a basic feeling of inadequacy was the driving force in both her
career and her marriage. It was an important revelation. The shadow self was now
present for her to see and explore, and Emma became aware of how the ego drove her
to strive for unreachable perfection.

Together, Emma and I knew she was ready for some sessions of healing. My intuition
suggested several avenues: chakra healing, energy healing, guided imagery, and color,
light, and sound healing. My goal was to release the blocked emotions of fear and
shame that lay at the root of her anxiety.

With her permission, we invited the light to guide us. To soft music and chanting, I
began with aura cleansing. The aura is the electromagnetic field around the body, and
in the soft twilight of the healing room, I was able to see the imbalance in Emma’s aura.
Instead of being clear, hers was clouded. I sprayed sage to cleanse her aura and used
aromatherapy sprays to assist with her imagery.

We breathed together. I guided Emma to visualize an elevator door on the 3rd floor. With
her eyes closed, she saw a blue doorway and we began to move upward to the 5th
level. At the 5th floor, the doors opened, where we both saw many crystals and a
streaming light energy. In that room, Emma saw white light, and felt a strong, peaceful
presence.

I guided her to walk in her mind down a corridor with many doors. When one opened,
she went in to a lovely, warm light. She saw a healing bed, and I guided her to rest in it.
A movie screen came down in front of her. Emma began to see and to explore her
childhood memories. She had grown up fearful with an alcoholic father who reinforced
her feelings of shame and unworthiness, only validating her when she achieved good
grades in school. Once again, Emma felt and saw her negative patterns, but in a safe
way. She was distanced enough to see they were not herself.

We moved to releasing emotion from the Chakras, which are points along the spine
where the life force is centered. I invoked images of the color red to cleanse fear from
Emma’s first chakra, yellow to release shame from the third. With tuning forks and
bells, I used sound healing to further loosen and release emotional blocks. Emma said
she felt a weight lift from her body, along with a mixture of hot and cold sensations.
Throughout the healing process, she saw the colors red, yellow, and white. Again, we
breathed together and I invoked the color gold to embrace her.

I had her leave the healing room on the 5th floor, and she rode the elevator “back” to
the counseling room. She smiled with gratitude and we exchanged a hug. Before she
left, I advised Emma to bathe daily for 9 days in a mixture of Epsom salts, sea salt, and
baking soda to further release toxins from her body.

Emma and I had several healing sessions. She began experiencing less anxiety, and
observed herself listening to her husband more, and judging less.

This was her shadow work. By exposing and embracing her ego, she was able to let go
of the brittle, competitive self, becoming more compassionate and humble. Happily, she
said that she felt more like her true self. Yes, the timing was divinely orchestrated. I
was there as an instrument to help, but Emma’s determination to change released her
own power to heal herself.

WHITE PLAINS | 721 W. Boston Post Road | Mamaroneck, NY 10543
MANHATTAN | 185 Madison Avenue, 17TH Floor Room 1703 | New York, NY 10016


Social Distancing Required.
Linda is offering Virtual & Online Healing sessions from the remote safety of your home. 

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